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I am competitive and I hate losing. When I feel that somebody might be higher than me, he turns the switch somewhere deeply inside me and puts me into the extent.
This is not limited to the work I do in FutureFund, mine Free fund raising platform For school groups K-12. I need to be the best athlete, trainer, family man and software engineer I may be. And most of it works. I motivate me to strive for perfection and stand out as an alternative of becoming too comfortable and stagnation.
But the same trend that leads me to steer me in these matters, can sometimes turn out to be effective. My reluctance to lose is so strong that I often hate playing board games. As you may imagine, it can really make it difficult to make a family game night if I don’t keep it under control.
Many people in technology are such because it is a competitive landscape. Perhaps it is the same for you: all you do, it is advisable to do 100% – and because you place 100% yourself into something, it is almost unimaginable for your success or failure to feel reflecting who you are. Like me, you have a brand, and this brand is: when you do something, you’ll succeed.
The trick is to keep up a healthy sense of competition to serve you to work and personal goals as an alternative of disturbing. Here’s how I do it – and how will you.
The way you reply to competition is a alternative
Not everyone reacts to the competition in the same way. People are inclined to fall into one of the two groups when they witness how someone was successful for a purpose they have for themselves.
The first group is attempting to sabotage the success they see in others. They ask how they’ll change the fame of the competition to make it negative. This is more often accepted than you might assume. We normally look at brands that run obvious smear campaigns against their rivals, but many firms escape from writing press messages that favorably compare their products or services with their biggest competitors.
The second group is attempting to improve so that they’ll match and exceed the success that others experience. They motivated themselves to higher themselves as an alternative of throwing themselves at their rivals. This approach could appear much more work, but I discovered that it is often much more satisfying.
The first group’s approach can act initially – but there is an obvious risk. This may not only dare you if you are too heavy, but it may cause rivals and motivate them to work harder against you than usual. But the biggest problem is that focusing on others does nothing to enhance your skills.
The approach of the second group requires that you just be unwavering honest towards yourself and your team about your strengths and weaknesses, which at the starting may be difficult. But he also pays dividends. You discover where to take a position your time and effort for maximum profits. You turn out to be more efficient and less often blame others for your mistakes, and ultimately you are approaching becoming the best you may be in what you do.
Wanting to win vs. hatred of losing
When you choose to motivate yourself as an alternative of demolishing competitors, the next query is find out how to do it. Here is one approach to think about the one that at all times helped me:
It’s not only about winning; The point is to lose. If you are much like me, disappointment is normally stronger to you than the joy of winning.
This does not help you be a sore loser on these occasions, when it is invisible – you do not need to break the game family. But the priority is to avoid hostile results is often helpful because it increases the likelihood of repairing things that individuals can allow if they are too focused on their victories.
One of the major competitors of Futurefund finally left business because their support team routinely took weeks to return to people. This problem could be easy to repair, but they might let it turn out to be their Achilles heel. Although this might not seem enough, it turned out that this is essential for their users.
So we decided that one of our non-vagotibles would reply to support tickets at a reasonable time-kill of hours or less. It was easy to get involved with this, but it had a deeply positive impact on our success.
Think about it in the context of your startup. Maintaining competition means celebrating your victories, but never allowing yourself to complacency where there is room for improvement.
You define what victory is
Finally, you would like a healthy approach to determine the variety of conclusions and recognition of your victories. It may be difficult because it is not at all times clear in business who wins. There are no universal goal points that everybody can see.
Here is my rule: the competition is healthy when you choose what success looks like, as an alternative of letting others do it. Measure your progress by how far you have come in connection with the set goals as an alternative of enabling competitors to regulate the narrative and at all times be one step behind them.
The success for me is that I am a little higher than the day before. When you are on a startup, your product won’t be perfect at the starting – or perhaps ever. But you’re employed to make sure it’s higher than last month – or last week or yesterday. In this fashion, you may at least make sure you are going in the right direction.
If you rigorously selected your mission, this sort of progress becomes a much higher reference point for success than what one other company is doing. You can read more about this in my next article below: